N. Linchiki
About Me
Nina Linchiki - Clinical Psychologist, poet, and member of the IPOS (International Psycho-Oncology Society)
Nina was 26 years old when she received the diagnosis of Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma. Suddenly thrust into the role of a cancer patient, she grappled with profound existential questions: Who am I? What do I desire in life? Her answer was clear: to focus on her recovery and inspire others facing similar challenges worldwide. Throughout her treatment journey, she wrote a book titled "This Will Pass Too - Beat Cancer with Zero Fear," sharing her inspirational story of winning over cancer.
"I've lost hope many times, but not in the fight against cancer.
I've been an incorrigible optimist since childhood. I can see the bright side in every situation, seize it, and turn it into my own opportunity. I believe it's thanks to my mother, who inspired me from childhood to be protected by a guardian angel.
What would I advise people who are currently facing severe illnesses?
First and foremost, I recommend that you keep calm. Don't panic about the diagnosis.
If you are still worried, listen to your body, ask it what will help you calm down and overcome the obstacle.
Write down all the possibilities and prioritize them.
When you feel a sudden rush of anxiety or fear, take a deep breath and remind yourself as often as possible that this is temporary, and this will pass too.
Seek help from your loved ones. Don't isolate yourself in a room.
Speak up and remember that both fear and anxiety are echoes of your existence.
To paraphrase Jack Ma, "Today may be challenging, tomorrow may be tougher, but the sun will shine the day after tomorrow!"
I've observed:
When someone fails, our self-esteem tends to go down. Somehow, you might start believing that if they can't do it, you can't either. So I always advise myself and others to never identify themselves with someone else's obstacles.
"If someone is defeated on the way of battle with cancer, it does not mean the same will happen to me." That's why I've used these words as the motto of my book.
Having cancer is not a special condition; it is one of life's inconveniences. Ultimately, you overcome an obstacle when you no longer allow it to dominate your thoughts.
No matter the situation you find yourself in, with hard work, perseverance, and consistent action, goals can be achieved.
The sweetest victory is attained on the thorniest of roads.
My book might be unique for you or your loved one who has been diagnosed with cancer."
Warmly,
Nina